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“Drip”: The Tween-Teen Fashion Phenomenon

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In recent years, the term “drip” has emerged as a popular slang word among teens and tweens, encapsulating the idea of having a stylish and effortlessly cool appearance. Understanding what a “drippy” look is can help connect to your Tween by encouraging self expression. Feeling understood and dressed based on their personal style will boost their confidence!


What Does “Drip” Mean in Fashion?
“Drip” refers to the ability to showcase a unique sense of style that is both trendy and individualistic. It often includes wearing name-brand clothing, but more importantly, it’s about how the pieces are put together to create a cohesive and standout look. To have drip, an outfit should be:


• Trendy: Incorporating current fashion trends.
• Personalized: Reflecting the individual’s personality.
• Balanced: Combining statement pieces with simpler items.
• Confident: Worn with assurance and poise.

  1. Footwear
    Sneakers are a cornerstone of a drippy outfit. Brands like Nike, Adidas, and Vans are popular choices. Limited edition or collaboration sneakers can add an exclusive edge to the ensemble.
  2. Streetwear Brands
    Streetwear has become synonymous with drip. Hoodies, graphic tees, and joggers from these brands can enhance the drippy factor.
  3. Accessories
    Accessories can elevate a look from simple to standout. Consider:
    • Hats and Beanies: Adding headwear can complement an outfit.
    • Chains and Bracelets: Subtle jewelry, fidget bracelets can offer a touch of flair.
    • Backpacks and Bags: Functional yet stylish bags can complete the look; bonus for unique keychains!
  4. Layering
    Mastering the art of layering is crucial for drippy fashion. Combining a hoodie with a bomber jacket or a denim jacket over a graphic tee can create depth and interest.

  5. Tween-Approved Outfits
    • Footwear: White Nike Air Force 1s
    • Bottoms: Black joggers
    • Top: Oversized graphic tee from a favorite team
    • Outerwear: Puffer Jacket 
    • Accessories: Simple chain necklace or leather rope bracelet 
    School-Ready
    • Footwear: Crocs
    • Bottoms: Slim-fit jeans or joggers 
    • Top: Logo hoodie from a streetwear brand or sports team
    • Outerwear: Lightweight puffer vest
    • Accessories: Backpack, loaded with keychains 
    Weekend Hangout
    • Footwear: Adidas Slides
    • Bottoms: Joggers
    • Top: Hoodie 
    • Outerwear: Puffer Vest
    • Accessories: Beanie, crossbody bag
    Final Tips for Achieving “Drip”
    • Confidence is Key: The way an outfit is worn can transform simple pieces into a drippy ensemble.
    • Mix and Match: Don’t be afraid to experiment with different styles and brands.
    Allow your tween and teen boys to express their unique style and walk the halls with undeniable drip!

“Revenge Dressing”

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If you have an upcoming event and hope to pull off a revenge dress, you really should know how it all began.

The Debut of the Original Revenge Dress:

In 1991, Prince Charles and Princess Diana announced their separation. Three years later, his tell-all interview aired on public TV in an attempt to share his side of the story ,openly confirming his affair with Camilla.
That very same night, as viewers across the world gasped from this admittance, Princess Diana stepped out in this Christina Stambolian designed mini-dress , and the now iconic “revenge dress” was born.

In hindsight , this was a legendary style call. Head held high she didn’t even need to acknowledge the breaking infidelity news because her dress did all the talking; boldly expressing to the world ;

“I’m having a fabulous night on the town and looking incredible while doing it. Can you believe he would do that to me?”

Absolutely Genius!

Revenge Dressing today:

In February 2024 Cosmopolitan featured a cover story entitled “The Best Revenge? These Clothes.” The article and photoshoot featured Olivia Ponton and addressed revenge dressing today-inspiring readers to :

“bring everyone who has ever wronged you to their knees with these simple yet very effective styles.”

Revenge Dressing after a breakup or another similar life event can be challenging, leaving you feeling a range of emotions. One way people cope with these emotions is through “revenge dressing.”

Revenge dressing is not about seeking validation from others; it’s about reclaiming your power and feeling your best self.

What is the best way to achieve revenge?

Below are some key elements to consider when creating your revenge dressing style:

Experiment with New Styles!

A breakup is a great time to try something new. Experiment with styles you haven’t worn before, whether it’s a daring silhouette, a trendy fabric, or an accessory you’ve always admired. This can help you discover new facets of your style and personality.

Prioritize Fit and Comfort

While it’s tempting to go all out, ensure your clothes fit well and you feel comfortable. Confidence often comes from feeling good in what you wear, so prioritize pieces that flatter your body and make you feel at ease.

Accessorize!

Choose statement pieces like bold earrings, a striking necklace, or a stylish handbag to add a touch of sophistication and flair to your look.

Highlight Your Best Features!

Choose outfits that highlight your favorite features. Whether it’s a dress that accentuates your waist or a top that complements your shoulders, focusing on your best attributes can boost your confidence and mood.

Treat yourself!

Consider investing in a few high-quality pieces that make you feel luxurious and special. These items can become staples in your wardrobe, reminding you of your strength and resilience every time you wear them!

Embrace this opportunity to explore and redefine your style, and let your wardrobe reflect your newfound confidence and independence!

Xoxo
Eliza

Unless it’s a “Selfie” Why aren’t Moms in more photos?

In today’s digital age, it’s easier than ever to snap countless photos of our children as they grow. However, amidst this flurry of photos snaps, often only stored on our phone, there’s a crucial element that often gets overlooked: you (mom) are most likely absent from these pictures / memories!!!

Why I feel this is so important:

Photos allow your children to look back at their childhood and appreciate the role their family played in their lives. It helps them understand their own history and the love that shaped them; how can this history possibly be complete without including photos of them and their Mom???

Mama’s : Pictures are not just about documenting every detail of your child’s life but also about capturing your motherhood; your bond, your love, all the milestones that you shared together!

So, why aren’t we in more pics?

Many moms shy away from the camera due to self-consciousness or always being the default family photographer. 

Here are some ideas to overcome help overcome these barriers!

  • Embrace your imperfections and recognize that your children value your presence more than your appearance!
  • Encourage other family members to take photos so that moms can be in the frame during birthdays, holidays, and family gatherings.
    • Offer to snap a photo of a Mom and her little while out at the park if you feel comfortable- she will most likely be surprised but grateful , and could possibly offer to return the favor!
    Last but not least… My Most Favorite Suggestion!!
    • Family Photo Sessions: Find an affordable lifestyle photographer for family photo sessions that include everyone, or fun one on one mommy and me mini sessions ! We try to do these annually , or to capture 
    important milestones birthdays. We now have wall canvases , Holliday Card material, and priceless memories displayed throughout our home (rather than our phones) !!!
    Xoxo 
    Eliza

A Connection Between Style & Mental Health:

How to improve your mental health by making more intentional style choices:

In recent years, the connection between what we wear and the effects on our mental well being has gained significant attention.

The concept of self-care transcends merely physical health, extending into mental and emotional realms as well. By making our clothing choices more intentional taking into consideration our mood or mental state our choices can play a crucial role in fostering a more positive mindset and enhance daily self-care routines- wether it be a stay home day in pajamas or going into the office, getting dressed is something we ( hopefully) do every day!

“Get up ! Dress Up ! Show up!”

This is a wonderful mantra, but what about the days when this feels overwhelmingly impossible? Whether it be stress related, anxiety related, or a hint of depression heading your way, having “go to outfits “ prepared when this happens can help!

Prioritize “Comfortable”

By choosing styles that prioritize comfort, you will have less dread of facing the day and better enable yourself to focus on what truly matters—your well-being.

Opt for looser fitting tops; oversized sweaters, tunic style dresses or cardigans paired with leggings or “legging-like” work pants.

  • Soft Fabrics: materials like cotton, angora (cashmere works too!) cozy sherpa or fleece lined pieces.

•Neutral Colors: Soft colors like ivory and grey can have a calming effect.

Remember , you’ve got this!

Xoxo,

Eliza

Are you an “Office Vixen” ???


Understanding the Term “Office Vixen”:
The term “office vixen” is often used in a colloquial context to describe a woman in the workplace who is perceived as alluring, confident, and assertive. It’s important to note that this term can carry both positive and negative connotations depending on the context and the intention behind its use. Below, we explore these nuances and what being an “office vixen” might entail.
Positive Connotations
1 Confidence: An office vixen is often seen as someone who exudes confidence and self-assurance. This can be an asset in a professional environment, as confidence can lead to effective communication and leadership.
2 Charisma: This individual may have a charismatic presence, which can be beneficial for networking and building professional relationships.
3 Fashionable: Often, an office vixen is perceived as someone with a keen sense of style, using fashion as a form of personal expression and empowerment in the workplace.
4 Intelligent and Capable: Beyond appearance, an office vixen is typically recognized for her skills, intelligence, and ability to perform her job effectively.
Negative Connotations
1 Stereotyping: The term can sometimes perpetuate stereotypes that reduce women to their appearance or behavior, overshadowing their professional achievements.
2 Judgment: Being labeled an “office vixen” might subject a woman to unfair scrutiny or judgment, especially if the label is used in a derogatory manner.
3 Misunderstanding: The term can lead to misunderstandings about a woman’s intentions or professional capabilities, potentially affecting her career growth.
Navigating the Workplace
For those who might be labeled as an “office vixen,” it’s important to navigate the workplace with professionalism and clarity. Here are some tips:
• Embrace Your Strengths: Use your confidence and charisma to your advantage in professional settings.
• Set Boundaries: Clearly define professional boundaries to ensure that your skills and contributions are recognized.
• Focus on Performance: Let your work speak for itself, ensuring that your professional abilities are always at the forefront.
Conclusion
The concept of an “office vixen” is multi-faceted, shaped by societal perceptions and individual interpretations. It’s essential to approach this term with an understanding of its potential implications and to promote a respectful, inclusive workplace where everyone is valued for their professional contributions.